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February 18, 2025

Health


I bought 2 cockatiels, 1 male and 1 female, from a store 10 days ago. They’re around 9-10 months old, (though I’m not exactly sure). The female was a bit sick when I got her—she’d been bullied by the other birds in the same cage and had some injuries around her eye. She was very weak and struggling to eat properly. Unfortunately, the shopkeeper didn’t seem concerned, insisting she’d recover in a week. However, after just 3 days, she passed away.
I initially kept the two birds together for 2 days before separating them. I noticed the male became quite aggressive if he didn’t see her nearby. After she passed, he seemed even more upset. For the past 2 days, he’s been quieter, but he’s also been drowsy all the time. He eats fine, his poop is fine and vent area are normal, but he doesn’t move much and seems easily scared and bcz of that he’s been having trouble sleeping and eating properly. Whenever I try to sit with him, he just runs away. He still can’t fly well but often perches on high places like the fan. Is it normal? Will he get used to the surroundings soon? Also he don’t eat any vegetables or pellets or any other food rather that mixed seeds ( mullet, rice grain, sunflower seed) he is scared to even go near it.


Answer:

Hi,

It does not sound like the place you got him is a good place to get a pet. He may also be sick. Cockatiels are bad about having chlamydiosis, which can be passed on to people. If he still seems sick, you need to return him or take him to a Vet. Sadly the store will just let him die, if they were dishonest enough to sell a sick bird in the first place. Also if they really are that young, you can’t tell males from females yet. And if you want a bird as a pet, you should not get two because they will like each other and not have any interest in being a pet.

If he is healthy, you need to give him more time to settle in and work with him slowly. You can’t try to do too much, too soon. Please check out our links below to learn more about care and training.

Pet Bird and Parrot Behavior

Teaching Your Bird

Bird Food Guide

Thank you for asking Lafeber,

Brenda

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